The choice of position has a direct impact on the speed of ejaculation — different positions offer different levels of stimulation and control.
The most intense positions The standard missionary and doggy ("bear") positions usually provide the most friction and stimulation — less recommended for beginners in the control stage.
The most controlled position The woman-on-top position allows the man to focus on breathing and sensations without controlling the movement—often recommended as a “relaxation” position.
Positional change strategy Changing positions (from intense to less intense) as arousal increases allows contact to continue while temporarily decreasing intensity—an alternative to the Stop-Start technique without interrupting contact.
The Importance of Experimenting Since individual sensitivity varies, creating your own “intensity map” of poses over time will reveal the best strategy.