Practitioners of long-term waiting and edging techniques often face the question of when to stop holding back and allow the body to orgasm.
Physiological signs that the time has come Loss of breathing control, involuntary intense muscle tension, a feeling of “point of no return”—these signs indicate that further restraint will become an unpleasant, not a pleasant, experience.
Why It's Not Worth "Over" Prolonging There's a balance — holding back too long, past a certain point, reduces satisfaction instead of intensity and can even lead to discomfort.
Individual listening is more important than rules There is no universal “right” time — listening to your body’s signals (rather than strictly following a predetermined plan) is the best guide.
A signal agreed upon with your partner A pre-agreed word or gesture (“now”) that indicates “I’m ready to surrender” eliminates ambiguity at the most sensitive moment.