Cunnilingus is the most reliable way to orgasm for many women—the softness and temperature of the tongue allow for control that fingers cannot.
Initial Pace Start with gentle kisses in the common area—the inner thighs, the groin—without rushing straight to the clitoris. This creates anticipation and increases the level of arousal.
Tongue Technique A flat, broad tongue with slow, vertical movements is usually more pleasurable initially than direct pressure with a pointed tongue. Synchronizing your breathing rhythm with your partner's movements — warm breath on the skin is part of the stimulation in itself.
The role of the hands The tongue is not the only tool—adding vaginal stimulation with fingers (if the partner agrees) often enhances sensation through combined stimulation.
Feedback Since this posture makes eye contact difficult, vocal and physical signals (gestures, head movements) become the main means of communication — greetings are perfectly natural in between.