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Kegel exercises for both partners: how to achieve perfection in bed

Kegel exercises for both partners — how to achieve perfection in bed. A detailed scientific and erotic guide for couples on Ertad.ge.

Kegel exercises for both partners: how to achieve perfection in bed
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Kegel exercises (pelvic floor muscle exercises) were developed in the 1940s by gynecologist Arnold Kegel to treat urinary incontinence — later clinical studies confirmed their benefits for sexual function in both sexes.

How to find the right muscles Stopping the flow of urine is exactly the muscle group you need to train. This is just a familiar exercise to try once, not a regular practice method (frequent use can also affect bladder function).

Exercise technique Contraction of the muscle for 3-5 seconds, then complete relaxation for the same time — 10-15 repetitions, 3 times a day. It is important to isolate only the pelvic muscles — without straining the abdominal, gluteal, or thigh muscles.

Benefits for Women Clinical studies show a link between strengthened pelvic floor muscles and orgasm intensity — stronger muscle contractions during orgasm are directly related to more intense subjective sensation. Also, rebuilding pelvic floor muscles after pregnancy has a direct impact on sexual comfort.

Benefits for Men In men, Kegel exercises have been linked to better ejaculation control and, in some studies, improved erectile function, as these muscles are directly involved in maintaining blood flow to the penis during an erection.

When to Expect Results Like any muscle-building exercise, results are not immediate — at least 4-6 weeks of consistent practice are required for noticeable changes.

Common Exercise Mistakes The most common mistake is holding your breath during a contraction — breathing should continue naturally. Another common mistake is tensing your entire pelvis (including your abs and buttocks) instead of specific muscles — this reduces the effectiveness of the exercise and can even cause unwanted tension in other muscle groups.

Progression over time After the initial stage (3-5 second contractions), it is possible to gradually complicate the exercise - increasing the duration of the contraction to 10 seconds, or adding a series of fast, short contractions in parallel with slow, long contractions. This variety trains different types of muscle fibers more thoroughly.

When to Get a Professional Involved If you have trouble finding the right muscles yourself, or if you have a known pelvic floor problem (post-pregnancy complications, history of surgery), consulting a physiotherapist (with a pelvic floor specialization) is recommended — a specialist can use biofeedback technology to accurately confirm whether you are exercising the right muscles.

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